About

This is a true story

This blog is about the parts of my life that are private. This is my new honest anon blog started about nonmonogamy, my life and loves over 40 years. Starting before there were terms like polyamory, before Dan Savage, before The Ethical Slut and before there was an Internet that created virtual communities of like minded people.

I am using a pseudonym so that I can protect myself and others from the repercussions that may come from coming out of the closet. But, what I have to share is valuable, I think, to myself and others. I am not Sam, that is a pseudonym.

A pseudonym is a name that a person or group assumes for a particular purpose, which differs from his or her original or true name.

I have a life that is quite different than what is on my blog. I am pushing 60 now. I have kids, grandkids, and friends who would not understand what I now take for granted, for me. It is natural to romantically love more than one person at a time.

It was not an easy journey getting here though...