Thursday, June 25, 2015

Advice - should I tell him I'm poly?

First I hope you bring it up. But, be prepared for this, it will likely never be the same between you two after you do.

Even if he says no, hell no. He may not trust you around male friends again. You gotta be prepared for that.

You gotta ask yourself some questions: Is that a price I am willing to pay for being honest about who I am? If he says no, hell no, will I want to stay in my marriage? Being poly and living a poly lifestyle are two sides of the same coin. If he says no, hell no, will at least being honest about my relationship orientation and desires be enough if I don't get to live it?

On the other hand, if you don't ask, he will never have the opportunity to say yes.

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