Monday, July 16, 2018

My advice to new poly people

Be prepared for it to be very different than you expect it to be. Be prepared to learn things about yourself and/or your partner you never imagined you'd learn. Be prepared for the fact that anything you learn cannot be unlearned.

And, know that just as you are opening your relationship, you can close it again. But, it's almost impossible to get back to where you were before you opened in the first place. You will most likely be changed at the core level of your relationship, and as people, by the experience.

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